Pinky Promise 2014…A Life Changing Experience
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abstinence
, addiction
, alcohol
, Cornelius Lindsey
, courting
, dating
, God
, Heather Lindsey
, Jesus
, love
, lust
, Pinky Promise
, relationships
, sex
, weed
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Cornelius Lindsey, myself, and Heather Lindsey, after I got my book signed by Heather. Check out her book Pink Lips and Empty Hearts. It’s amazing to go back to the place you were when God delivered you from all of your mess. This past weekend, I travelled to Atlanta, GA for the annual Pinky...
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The Truth About Someone Who Breaks Up With You Because of Your Past
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Picture Source: www.searchquotes.com So, you’ve been with your significant other for quite sometime now. You all have fun, finish each other’s sentences, and have phone conversations until 2 am. Everything is going great. So, you decide you’re comfortable enough to reveal those details about your life that very few people know. Initially, you’re glad that you...
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So, you really want to stop having sex, but keep finding yourself in temptation? Here’s what to do…
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abstinence
, Christ
, Christianity
, God
, hurt
, Im not pretty enough
, insecure
, insecurities
, Jesus
, love
, self-esteem
, sex
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Picture source: beawareorbeafraid.blogspot.com Yes, I know it’s hard. You’ve tried for months and years now to stop having sex. Yet, temptation seems to always find it’s way back to you. I’ve been there. For me, that temptation was alcohol. (Read about it here). Before my relationship with God, drinking and partying had a tendency to...
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Speaking/Writing Requests for Jordone
Speaking to some Upward Bound students at Claflin University about abstinence and finding purpose in God. Hi everyone! Due to the recent high volume of requests to work with me as a writer and speaker, I have added forms on my website to make it easier on everyone. If you’d like to request me...
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“I don’t want a Relationship…Let’s Just ‘Chill’”…Here’s the Truth About Statements Like that…
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abstinence
, chilling
, Christ
, dating
, God
, Godly relationship
, Jesus
, love
, relationship
, relationships
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“I don’t want a Relationship…Let’s Just ‘Chill’…” Man, if I could count the number of times I heard a guy tell me a statement like that. We would like each other, have sex, and I would hope he would desire a relationship with me. Of course, it never worked out this way. Like...
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How to Tell if He’s Worth a Relationship
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So, if you’ve been reading my blog then it’s no secret to you that I used relationships and sex as an outlet to mask my insecurities. I was a wreck before God. Like so many others, I had no idea that every attraction isn’t meant to be a relationship. In my eagerness to be...
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How in the World can I be Abstinent in a World full of Sex?
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Source: sexualityinart.wordpress.com Let’s be real. Just because I’ve made the decision to wait until marriage, that doesn’t mean I don’t want sex. Heck, we all do. Part of our purpose on this Earth is to be fruitful and multiply. So, there will be times where we just naturally have the desire to have sex, even...
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Drunk in Love?
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Source: www.musicboxmix.net When I was in the world I would have quite a bit of drunk sex. Lots of it and relentlessly. I was already very sexual in the world and spent most of my teen years using sex as a way to mask my insecurities. So, when I got to college and let...
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God Hasn’t Forgotten About You
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agitation
, Christian
, Christian writing
, confusion
, God
, has God forgotten about me
, help
, hurt
, love
, pain
, patience
, stress
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source: http://www.pinterest.com/TrevANDJac/jesus-christ-is-my-king/ Frustration was plaguing my mind quite a bit this week. Since I came back from the Peace Corps, I’ve been in a season where I’ve been looking for full time work. I’ve applied for jobs that I’m over qualified for and under qualified for. Still, only rejection letters have come my way....
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Love vs. Attraction …How I Conquered Lust
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I used to have a huge misconception of what it meant to be loved. Instead of looking for love in God, I was hoping to find it in men, sex, and friends. Low self-esteem left me longing for the chance to be accepted, even if it meant settling. All along, what I was really searching...
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